So, you’ve done it, you’re moving to London. You’ve found a place (finally), and you’re about to live with a bunch of people you may or may not know beyond a few DMs and a group viewing. Exciting? Definitely. Chaotic? Almost certainly.

Your first flat share in London is a rite of passage. It’s where you’ll learn how to stretch your budget, negotiate over fridge space, and discover that “someone’s eaten my hummus” can cause more tension than Brexit. But with the right mindset - and a little prep - it can also be one of the best experiences of your life.

Here’s how to survive (and maybe even thrive) in your first London flat share.

Choose Flatmates Wisely

Forget the “we both like the same Netflix shows” checklist. The real secret to good housemates? Shared values, not just shared interests.

You don’t have to be best friends, but you do need to live by similar rhythms. If you love quiet mornings and your flatmate hosts impromptu afterparties on Tuesdays, you’ll feel it fast. Before you move in, chat about cleaning, guests, and bills, the boring stuff that actually keeps the peace.

Budget Beyond Rent

Rent might be your biggest cost, but it’s not the only one. Bills, council tax, Wi-Fi, and that sneaky £15 delivery fee for one forgotten item can add up quickly.

Set a joint spreadsheet or budgeting app (Splitwise is your new best friend). Work out what everyone owes each month and pay it at the same time to avoid awkward “have you sent it yet?” messages. A clear system = no money drama.

Keep Communication Clear

Communication in a flat share is everything:

• Create a group chat (and mute it only during lectures or work).

• Agree on how to split chores. A cleaning rota might sound boring, but it beats passive-aggressive notes on the fridge.

• If something’s bothering you, talk about it early. Small things become big things fast when you’re sharing a kitchen.

Good vibes only happen when everyone’s on the same page.

Know Your Rights as a Tenant

We get it, tenancy agreements aren’t exactly thrilling bedtime reading. But knowing your rights can save you from a lot of stress later:

• You should get your deposit protected in an official scheme.

• Notice periods matter. Check what’s in your contract before making big plans.

• Maintenance issues (like a broken heater or leaky tap) are your landlord’s responsibility, not yours.

If you ever feel unsure, ask your letting agent for clarity, that’s what they’re there for.

Make It Feel Like Home

Even on a student budget, you can make your flat feel like yours. String lights, second-hand décor, plants you might keep alive, all small things that make a big difference.

And don’t underestimate the power of shared space. Movie nights, Sunday brunches, or a simple “good morning” in the kitchen help turn a flat share into a home.

Your first London flat share is a crash course in adulthood. You’ll learn patience, budgeting, teamwork, and maybe even diplomacy (when it’s your turn to clean the bathroom). But more than that, you’ll make memories, find independence, and build your version of London life.

Whether you’re renting your first flat or looking for a new home in London, Mayfords can help you find a space that truly fits your lifestyle.